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UK Regional Report
- Wales - OCTOBER 2010
Over the years, I had
heard a lot about The Smiles Foundation
from going to Nia’s concerts. I had heard how it began, how it had
developed, watched DVD’s, which had always moved me to tears, seen
the choir in Gorsley Festival, and
thought I knew quite a bit about the Foundation. I had always wanted
to go to Romania to see the work that they did but had never had the
opportunity. Finally, during July 2010 my husband Ed and I finally
made it. What I realised is that I actually did not know much at
all!
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On our first
working day, Ed joined a team painting the containers! Talk about
recycling at its best. Smiles have been busy converting these
containers into homes, adding windows, doors, bathroom,
kitchen
and bedrooms. It was impressive to see how homely they look inside.
These containers make such a difference to people’s lives. It was
exciting to hear during our stay that the Local Government had not
only allowed Smiles to provide these containers to the homeless within
the city, but had also agreed to supply electricity and sewage for
them. We were amazed at how Smiles is making such progress and being
so highly regarded by such important bodies. How much more can they
achieve with the Local Government on their side! |
While Ed was busy with the
paintbrush, I went on family visits with Nelu, one of the Smiles
Social Workers. We visited a few families that day and it was
unbelievable to think that people within the European Union could
still live in such tough situations. One family had five people living
in one very small room. Another family of five, where the father was
an alcoholic, had two rooms but had taken in another child as he had
lost both his mother and father. Recently, their own son had been
diagnosed with
schizophrenia. However, it was a privilege to meet
these people and spend time with them, but above all, it was lovely to
see the close rapport they have with Nelu. He was more than their
social worker. He is their friend who comes to listen and to share a
joke or two.
On Tuesday
evening, we went to visit some of the homeless within the city of
Oradea. We met a 13-year-old girl who lived with her mother. She
showed me one of her schoolbooks, which was immaculate and beautifully
decorated. She was top of her class and walked a different route to
school everyday so that no one would notice where she lived. None of
her school friends knew she was homeless! What a brave and determined
young lady. |
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We went on to visit another
family. The guy that came to greet us was a big friendly giant – a
gentleman! He used to be an International Swimmer but had been
betrayed by a friend who stole all his money. So here he was –
homeless! But do you know what? He was still smiling, and still making
the most of life. His partner was a good hairdresser so we decided it
was time for Ed to receive an overdue haircut. This couple had taken
in another young couple. It seemed that they had taken on the role of
mum and dad. How amazing, wonderful and humble, that these guys did
not have much and yet they still shared what little they had.

I was stunned how these ‘normal’ people (whatever that may be) could
find themselves in these ‘extreme’ situations. We take so much for
granted at home and yet this could so easily be you and I. It was so
frustrating that we could not do more for them. They were such brave
individuals; we felt such admiration for their strength of character.
Under these miserable circumstances, can you believe we had fun and
went home feeling enriched as if we had spent an evening with friends.
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On Wednesday, I was fortunate
enough to be able to spend time at the Family Centre (previously the
Children’s Centre). A few of the women were visiting family members
and so it was quite quiet. However, we were able to spend some quality
time with the three little ones and help with their morning class. I
had been briefly told of their background and knew life had not been
easy. Yet their eyes smiled for them. They were full of life, creative
and happy. The innocence of little ones was so apparent and beautiful
as they openly laughed at my accent as I tried to say a few Romanian
sentences. The adults I had met so far had been far too polite to do
so but I knew exactly where I stood with these beautiful kids. They
did not approve of my name either – I was wearing a headscarf and so
they decided I looked like Jesus’ mother, Mary, so I was Mary for the
whole session! Its marvellous how there is no language barrier with
children. As long as you can smile, laugh and play, you have an
instant bond. |
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On Thursday, we visited the
Tileagd Gypsy Community and on Friday, we visited the Salard Gypsy
Community. The difference between them was instant and obvious. The
Tileagd community seemed happy with a strong sense of togetherness.
However, the Salard community came across as angry and frustrated,
with each other as well as with the rest of the world.
The Smiles Foundation started
working alongside the Tileagd community just over ten years ago. There
has been a miraculous progress there. When they met, the men were
withdrawn, alcoholism and theft was rife, men and women did not mix,
there was not much laughter and there were very few smiles. Ten years
on, their leader, as well as many others have come to know Jesus as
their friend and Saviour! There is a sense of genuine community there
and they seem to have much love and happiness amongst them. |
When we arrived, it felt like we
were joining a party. Some of the others within our group went to
visit some of the families. However, I was enjoying the party where I
was. It seemed that the whole village was dancing or at least clapping
along, from little tiny tots to grown up men and women. I even
received a few dancing tips. If only we could have street parties like
this back home. It was a wonderful atmosphere.
Ed came back from one of the
houses he had been to visit and with that, a beautiful young lady
dragged me along to her house. It was immaculate - everything in its
place and not a speck of dust in site. She did not think twice to take
a scarf from her sofa and put it on my head. Again, she did not have
much but had such a giving, generous heart. Our visit at Tileagd was
far too short. |
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Salard is a relatively new
community that
Smiles has been working with, and is in a similar state
to what Tileagd was in ten years ago. Life seems to be far more
chaotic there, with no order or much respect for others but more
importantly for oneself. As difficult as it is, this community needs a
lot of love poured into them, to restore their faith in mankind. This
is a big project and a challenge for Smiles. However, they have
improved life for Tileagd and so I have no doubt that they can do the
same for Salard.
After spending a week in
Romania, it was an eye opener and a shock to realise the vast area
that Smiles is reaching out to. What is also abundantly clear is how
hard the staff at the Foundation work. It is not just a 9 till 5 job
for them. It is their life. They give the Foundation every ounce of
energy that they have. Without doubt, they must be exhausted and at
times, I would not blame them for wanting to give up. It was easy for
us – we went home. They are all still there working hard. We should
not forget to pray for them as well as for the projects they are
working on - pray that they may feel renewed energy and love to start
a new day. |
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On our return to Wales, we were
so excited that we were able to confirm that
the Tileagd Choir would visit our
Church, Bethel Baptist in Cardiff on the 12th of September. We were
really looking
forward
to seeing and spending time with them again. They came along to the
morning service and impressed the congregation with their performance.
Many people were touched to hear of their background and to hear how
much they had achieved despite this. The response they received was
very positive and many showed an interest in going on a Mission trip
next year. The first thing Marina said to me after the service was
‘Shall we go? Let’s do it!’ so now Marina you can’t get out of it! We
went on to enjoy some food and to have fun together. |
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Following the Tileagd Choir’s
visit to Bethel, we are now looking forward to organising a group
Mission Trip to Romania and hope we will be able to see them all very
soon.
Ruth Taylor, Cardiff |
Previous Reports
Northern Ireland, September 2010
North East, August 2010
South East, July 2010
Southern Counties, June 2010
North West, May 2010
North Midlands, March 2010
Scotland, February 2010
South East
Counties, January 2010
Southern Counties, December 09
North East, November 09
South
West, October 09
Northern Ireland, September 09 |
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