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UK Regional Report - Wales - OCTOBER 2010

Over the years, I had heard a lot about The Smiles Foundation from going to Nia’s concerts. I had heard how it began, how it had developed, watched DVD’s, which had always moved me to tears, seen the choir in Gorsley Festival, and thought I knew quite a bit about the Foundation. I had always wanted to go to Romania to see the work that they did but had never had the opportunity. Finally, during July 2010 my husband Ed and I finally made it. What I realised is that I actually did not know much at all!

On our first working day, Ed joined a team painting the containers! Talk about recycling at its best. Smiles have been busy converting these containers into homes, adding windows, doors, bathroom, kitchen and bedrooms. It was impressive to see how homely they look inside. These containers make such a difference to people’s lives. It was exciting to hear during our stay that the Local Government had not only allowed Smiles to provide these containers to the homeless within the city, but had also agreed to supply electricity and sewage for them. We were amazed at how Smiles is making such progress and being so highly regarded by such important bodies. How much more can they achieve with the Local Government on their side!

While Ed was busy with the paintbrush, I went on family visits with Nelu, one of the Smiles Social Workers. We visited a few families that day and it was unbelievable to think that people within the European Union could still live in such tough situations. One family had five people living in one very small room. Another family of five, where the father was an alcoholic, had two rooms but had taken in another child as he had lost both his mother and father. Recently, their own son had been diagnosed with schizophrenia. However, it was a privilege to meet these people and spend time with them, but above all, it was lovely to see the close rapport they have with Nelu. He was more than their social worker. He is their friend who comes to listen and to share a joke or two.

 On Tuesday evening, we went to visit some of the homeless within the city of Oradea. We met a 13-year-old girl who lived with her mother. She showed me one of her schoolbooks, which was immaculate and beautifully decorated. She was top of her class and walked a different route to school everyday so that no one would notice where she lived. None of her school friends knew she was homeless! What a brave and determined young lady.

We went on to visit another family. The guy that came to greet us was a big friendly giant – a gentleman! He used to be an International Swimmer but had been betrayed by a friend who stole all his money. So here he was – homeless! But do you know what? He was still smiling, and still making the most of life. His partner was a good hairdresser so we decided it was time for Ed to receive an overdue haircut. This couple had taken in another young couple. It seemed that they had taken on the role of mum and dad. How amazing, wonderful and humble, that these guys did not have much and yet they still shared what little they had.

I was stunned how these ‘normal’ people (whatever that may be) could find themselves in these ‘extreme’ situations. We take so much for granted at home and yet this could so easily be you and I. It was so frustrating that we could not do more for them. They were such brave individuals; we felt such admiration for their strength of character. Under these miserable circumstances, can you believe we had fun and went home feeling enriched as if we had spent an evening with friends.

On Wednesday, I was fortunate enough to be able to spend time at the Family Centre (previously the Children’s Centre). A few of the women were visiting family members and so it was quite quiet. However, we were able to spend some quality time with the three little ones and help with their morning class. I had been briefly told of their background and knew life had not been easy. Yet their eyes smiled for them. They were full of life, creative and happy. The innocence of little ones was so apparent and beautiful as they openly laughed at my accent as I tried to say a few Romanian sentences. The adults I had met so far had been far too polite to do so but I knew exactly where I stood with these beautiful kids. They did not approve of my name either – I was wearing a headscarf and so they decided I looked like Jesus’ mother, Mary, so I was Mary for the whole session! Its marvellous how there is no language barrier with children. As long as you can smile, laugh and play, you have an instant bond.
On Thursday, we visited the Tileagd Gypsy Community and on Friday, we visited the Salard Gypsy Community. The difference between them was instant and obvious. The Tileagd community seemed happy with a strong sense of togetherness. However, the Salard community came across as angry and frustrated, with each other as well as with the rest of the world.

The Smiles Foundation started working alongside the Tileagd community just over ten years ago. There has been a miraculous progress there. When they met, the men were withdrawn, alcoholism and theft was rife, men and women did not mix, there was not much laughter and there were very few smiles. Ten years on, their leader, as well as many others have come to know Jesus as their friend and Saviour! There is a sense of genuine community there and they seem to have much love and happiness amongst them.

When we arrived, it felt like we were joining a party. Some of the others within our group went to visit some of the families. However, I was enjoying the party where I was. It seemed that the whole village was dancing or at least clapping along, from little tiny tots to grown up men and women. I even received a few dancing tips. If only we could have street parties like this back home. It was a wonderful atmosphere.

Ed came back from one of the houses he had been to visit and with that, a beautiful young lady dragged me along to her house. It was immaculate - everything in its place and not a speck of dust in site. She did not think twice to take a scarf from her sofa and put it on my head. Again, she did not have much but had such a giving, generous heart. Our visit at Tileagd was far too short.

Salard is a relatively new community that Smiles has been working with, and is in a similar state to what Tileagd was in ten years ago. Life seems to be far more chaotic there, with no order or much respect for others but more importantly for oneself. As difficult as it is, this community needs a lot of love poured into them, to restore their faith in mankind. This is a big project and a challenge for Smiles. However, they have improved life for Tileagd and so I have no doubt that they can do the same for Salard.

After spending a week in Romania, it was an eye opener and a shock to realise the vast area that Smiles is reaching out to. What is also abundantly clear is how hard the staff at the Foundation work. It is not just a 9 till 5 job for them. It is their life. They give the Foundation every ounce of energy that they have. Without doubt, they must be exhausted and at times, I would not blame them for wanting to give up. It was easy for us – we went home. They are all still there working hard. We should not forget to pray for them as well as for the projects they are working on - pray that they may feel renewed energy and love to start a new day.

On our return to Wales, we were so excited that we were able to confirm that the Tileagd Choir would visit our Church, Bethel Baptist in Cardiff on the 12th of September. We were really looking forward to seeing and spending time with them again. They came along to the morning service and impressed the congregation with their performance. Many people were touched to hear of their background and to hear how much they had achieved despite this. The response they received was very positive and many showed an interest in going on a Mission trip next year. The first thing Marina said to me after the service was ‘Shall we go? Let’s do it!’ so now Marina you can’t get out of it! We went on to enjoy some food and to have fun together.

Following the Tileagd Choir’s visit to Bethel, we are now looking forward to organising a group Mission Trip to Romania and hope we will be able to see them all very soon.

Ruth Taylor, Cardiff


Previous Reports
Northern Ireland, September 2010
North East, August 2010
South East, July 2010

Southern Counties, June 2010
North West, May 2010
North Midlands, March 2010
Scotland, February 2010
South East Counties, January 2010
Southern Counties, December 09
North East, November 09
South West, October 09
Northern Ireland, September 09

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